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We are born with some restraints. Not a single person in the modern world is without RESTRICTIONS, The only difference one can feel is that, Some may have more RESTRICTIONS than freedom while other may have more freedom than RESTRICTIONS.

And if we are discussing this concept of RESTRICTIONS and freedom, that feminist feeling of mine suddenly got triggered, I once was asked at an interview that, “BEING A GIRL” What is my point of view about the time RESTRICTION that the hosteler girls have… Actually they had wanted me to start a speech on GENDER EQUALITY, like other candidates had done before me. But I didn’t.

When I was young, I always questioned my existence that Why all the RESTRICTIONS are for me but not for my brother, Why only I am restricted to wear those Shorts. And then I had decided to be a feminist and voice against it, But When I grown up and went into the society alone without my family, Only then I have released the real meaning of those RESTRICTIONS.

And now if I came back to that question of the interviewer, Restriction though perse it is bad but Atleast it is for the good. My family put the RESTRICTIONS on me not because they didn’t trust me, but because they are here in this WORLD of DEMONS before I am and they know the real mentality of this world. Where even now maturity level has crossed it’s age and limits.

And then those clothes’ RESTRICTIONS, That Denim’s Short. I can’t wear it When I am travelling alone but with family I can. What is it? Again They didn’t trust the society but trusts you….

And trust me not every girl is a body builder or know how to fight, Inspite of all the campaigns in the name of Women empowerment, encouraging the self defence training to Women and girls. So RESTRICTIONS are bad but not Wholly, even sometimes, the one with RESTRICTIONS have more Freedom later on than, those who have freedom initially.

And if you are fighting for the Freedom of the girls. Do it, But remember one thing “HER FREEDOM LIES ON THOSE RESTRICTIONS”. You will understand this whole concept once you be more empathetic then Sympathetic towards the Restrictions. If you are a girl apply this whole concept on your sister and if not have, then on your imaginary daughter. If a boy, then too on your sister or again, same on your imaginary daughter..